Often have I found myself criticizing my family and the fact of how stubburn they are. “Oh I’m glad not!” and not ‘til recent events I am realizing its a ‘kettle calling the pot black’ scenario. So for one to become the best person they can be, they must first decontruct and isolate the the worst parts and strive to change these. And then rebuild. It is a complicated machine and there are a lot of parts. And categorizing is the hardest part. But its part of the process.